Friday, August 22, 2014

Mid-Life Crisis? I prefer to call it Mid life and for the rest of my life LIVING

My writing reaches a varied scope of readers from the young to the experienced at life and the single to the married for a long time.  Gay, straight, many different races and ethnic backgrounds.  People who are well traveled and people who are homebound read my blog.  So, how many of you have ever been blessed to find someone who came into your life as a friend and then that friend turned into a really good friend and then you and your friend w/o even knowing how, morphed into a relationship where you began to care for each other as more than just friends?
I have been blessed to have had this FINALLY happen to me.  How does this happen?  I have no idea.  It was certainly not either of our intentions to be anything more than friends, but somehow it has beautifully blossomed into something so much more.
I can't explain it and why should I have to?
I have someone who cares for me.  Someone who worries about me.  Someone who is on board w/ me being me.  Someone who thinks having blue hair and being sassy are turn ons. Someone who teases me for being very sentimental and sappy, but is glad that I am so since it's to their benefit.  Someone who from day one has had only one intention and that is to get to know me from the inside out.  Someone who speaks of inner beauty being what really only matters and who sees me as beautiful and tells me I am beautiful everyday. Someone who loves my mind and thinks I'm smart and that I come up w/ things that are ingenious.  Someone who appreciates the small things and thinks that I am sweet, tho I'm only being me.
I could keep going on.  We make a great pair. I have deep down lasting joy like I have really never experienced long term.  I have a lot of s**t that I am facing financially, but because I am not alone and have someone so wonderful by my side supporting me every step of the way, I am able to face each day w/ a smile.   I am certain that in the not too distant future we will be making things official and I will be blogging my announcement right here so inquiring minds... be on the lookout.  We're not in a hurry (well, maybe I am a little), but we both want to take our time, REALLY get to know each other and make sure we are making the right decision before we make any big decisions.
Trust me... I will be happy to change my relationship status on Facebook to "In a Relationship"!!!!!

Stay tuned inquiring minds, 

~A

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